Wedding Planning with Zola


This week on my Instagram I posted a sneak peak of our engagement photos (by the amazingly talented Hannah Rexinger) and asked if you guys had any wedding related questions! I'll be answering all of them in a series of posts and showing you guys more about our wedding process in the next few weeks. For this first round of Q&A's, I'm so excited to be getting answers and advice from the pro, Jennifer Spector, the Director of Brand at Zola. For those of you that don't know, Zola is a website for all things wedding related. Kyle and I built our wedding website, registry, and guest list through Zola. What initially appealed to us was the beautiful site design options, but what really hooked us was how convenient and easy it was to manage the details of your wedding through Zola. I sent Jennifer some questions that you guys had and let me tell ya, they were super helpful to me and Kyle as we're going through this wedding planning journey! Here are your questions and her answers all about wedding planning and how Zola really helps make the process so much easier! And keep scrolling if you want to see our wedding website we made on Zola! I included some screenshots that give you an idea of the design, without giving away any private information. :) 
Wedding Planning with Zola 

What are some tips for planning a destination wedding?
Finding your wedding vendors in the place where you currently live is difficult, so trying to evaluate and manage vendors who are in a completely different part of the country or even world is definitely tough! But there are lots of venues that will provide you with a super helpful onsite coordinator to be a point of contact for you, so make sure that you really like him or her. Also, look for venues that provide multiple services, such as catering and transportation, maybe even an in-house photographer or florist.

What are important details to include on a wedding website?
Your wedding website is about practicality but also personality.  It’s the main source of info for your guests, so you should definitely include all of the important details like the ceremony start time, hotel and transportation options, and dress code. But it’s also where your guests will love to read all about you, like a fun how you met story, and where you can post lots of your favorite photographs. And do not forget about your registry. If you use Zola your registry will automatically integrate with your wedding website so your guests never even have to leave your beautifully designed page.

How many items at each price point should we register for?
We recommend that couples register for a range of price points from $25 to above $200. You want to make sure you have enough on your registry so that every guest can pick out a gift that is within budget, and they don’t get stuck feeling like they had to buy the one leftover item at the very end. If you’re having multiple wedding events like an engagement party or wedding shower, take that into account too. For higher ticket items like a dining room table or even a new TV it's a good idea to enable group gifting so guests can contribute whatever amount they feel comfortable with, but you still get what you really want. 

What is the appropriate timeline for sending Save the Dates, Invitations, and Thank You cards?
Most couples send Save the Dates 6-8 months before the wedding and Invitations 2-4 months before. If you’re having a destination wedding you might consider sending information even earlier so guests have enough time to plan and book travel.

The ideal timeline to send a thank you note is 2-3 weeks after receiving a gift, or within 3 months of your wedding. But truly it’s never too late, late is always better than never. One question we get a lot is should you send Thank You notes as soon as you receive a gift or is it ok to wait until after the wedding. It’s totally fine to wait until after the wedding to send your Thank You notes, but you may save yourself some stress by sending a few notes along the way and not waiting to send everything all at once.

How would you recommend gathering friends' and families' addresses?
Gathering addresses for friends’ and family can be one of the most tedious parts of wedding planning. When I was planning my wedding I had multiple spreadsheets, texts and email chains all with address information. It was so hard to compile! My best advice is to use Zola’s guest list manager to make the process as easy as possible. Through Zola you can draft your guest list and text or email a link to guests to fill out their missing information. You will not have to go through what I went through!

Is there a way to predict how many guests will RSVP?
There’s no way to know for sure how many people will RSVP yes or no, but a good rule of thumb is around 20% of people will RSVP no. We recommend creating A and B guest lists. As declines come in from your A list you can quickly send out additional invites to people on your B list. If you send out your save the dates early enough you may start to get a feeling for how many people are going to have to decline.

How would you recommend staying organized while wedding planning?
The best way to stay organized while wedding planning is to go in with a plan. Sit down early in the wedding planning process to set a budget which will help direct many decisions and make searching vendors easier. Create a priority list in terms of which vendors are the most important to you, and book those vendors first. Also, divvy up the wedding planning between the two of you - wedding planning is not a one person show. One last tip is to set aside regular wedding planning time, for example Sunday evening may be convenient for you and your partner to sit down with a glass of wine and hash out some details.

For us, using Zola as the site to manage our wedding was a no brainer. Zola's wedding planning dashboard is user friendly, the site design options are beautiful, and the registry offers all you could ever need and more; the top brands, experiences like wine tasting trips and flight credits, and the option to add gifts from any store in case there's something specific you want to register for. Check in next week for another wedding planning post! I'll be answering more questions about our day and sharing inspiration photos! 

Exploring Reno with Madden Girl

Today’s blog post is a pretty cool one because I get to combine two of my favorite things: music and shoes! I’ve been wearing Steve Madden shoes for as long as I can remember, and I’m so excited to be partnering with them to share their latest line of Madden Girl shoes as well as EZI, an emerging artist that was recently signed to Steve Madden’s record label, 5Towns Records. 

I LOVE how this Madden Girl line encourages people everywhere to embrace and flaunt their unique style and personalities. The shoes are so different, diverse, and fun— just like Madden Girl shoppers! These shoes definitely have the cool girl factor, just like the artist that’s repping this line. EZI is such a talented, fun, and confident artist. Her new song, “DaNcing in a RoOm” encourages listeners to live boldly and beautifully. And I can get behind any message encouraging other’s to be their truest selves like that. 

Like all of my Steve Madden products, these shoes are the perfect combination of function and style. I’m wearing the Aaden boots in black. I love the basic black leather booties, but there are also more  pattern options like snake skin! Another one of my favorites from this line? The Cutesey sneakers in silver. Talk about making a statement! 

Steve Madden has been a tried and true closet staple of mine for years, which is why partnering with them to share my new Madden Girl Aaden boots and EZI’s song, “DaNcing in a RoOm”. Just like Steve Madden’s classic yet on trend brand, EZI encourages her fans to live life loud and authentically. She is SO talented. And what’s even better? She’s on tour right now! Check out her site to see if she’ll be coming to your city soon. 

This post is brought to you by Madden Girl and Her Campus Media.


Gal’s Getaway Weekend with #TheRowReno

This past weekend I had the opportunity to experience the newly renovated spa and resort at The Row in Reno, Nevada. The Row, which is the combination of the three hotel properties Circus Circus, El Dorado, and Silver Legacy, exceeded my expectations. Each hotel is interconnected with 22 restaurants, 22 bars, a brand new spa, and endless things to do, so you can spend an entire weekend in Reno at The Row without ever having to leave! 

My favorite part of the weekend was definitely getting to try out The Spa at Silver Legacy, which just opened it’s doors. The spa director welcomed us with a champagne toast and a tour of the entire space, which he so clearly poured his heart and soul into. Everything from relaxation rooms with lavender features to the Himalayan salt detox room to the spa services themselves were excellent. I was treated to a scrub, pedicure, hair, and makeup services. Not a detail was overlooked and it was truly the best spa experience I’ve ever had. I loved that the spa incorporated aspects that honored both the local like warm tones of the Nevada desert and the blue hues of nearby Lake Tahoe. 

Another trip highlight? The 98 Degrees at Christmas concert! It was SO fun and festive. Though I’m a little young to remember this 90s boy band in their heyday, the set was a perfect combo of their hits and classic holiday songs. This concert seriously got me in the Christmas spirit and it’s safe to say from now until December 26th I’ll be blasting their Christmas album. 

Thank you so much to The Row for hosting me. Everyone on the team went above and beyond to treat our group to a wonderful weekend. The Row has tons of options to customize your weekend at a very affordable price point. For example, if your group books 8 or more services at the spa (ex: 4 people with 2 service each), The Row will throw in champagne service, guest room, and limo service at no additional cost. As a bride to be, the wheels in my head immediately started turning for a bachelorette weekend! 

Photos by Abbey Kay and Julia O Test